Ah, the awkward silence…
That nerve-wracking moment that can kill any sexual tension you had built up…
And is a highway to “the friend zone,” or in worst cases, the creep-zone.
Today I’m going to show you how to avoid awkwardness, especially on the first date…
Since that’s when you’ll have to carry the conversation the most.
Now the key is to get her to do most of the talking…
Because that’s how you get her invested in you and the interaction.
And besides… What is a woman’s favorite topic?
That’s right…
HERSELF.
So you need to ask her questions — but not just any ones. This isn’t an interview.
Here are some of my go to questions to keep a fun conversation flowing endlessly, raising her comfort and attraction for you…
But I also use these to find out about her desires, goals, and values (I use question #3 ALL the time):
Question #1: What were you like in high school?
You might want to follow up with “Were you the popular cheerleader type, or the nerdy chess club kind of girl?”
Funnily enough, MOST girls are going to say they’re normal (ie. somewhere in the middle), even if they were in one of these extremes.
This can naturally lead into her talking about her journey to become the woman she is today.
Question #2: If you could travel back in time and be an observer, watching everything safely, where and when would you travel to?
Great way to find out about her knowledge of history…
But also find out a lot about what she likes and you can then go down that rabbit hole.
Question #3: What’s it like dating guys in your city?
By far my favorite question.
It’s quite a “revealing” one as every woman has strong feelings attached to it.
So by asking this she’s going to feel like she’s known you for years and also creates this “us vs. the world” dynamic.
And I also like to follow up with “What’s your worst dating horror story?”
A fun and playful conversation ALWAYS comes out of it.
Question #4: If you could go back in time and give your 12-year-old self advice, what would you tell her?
Also reveals a lot about her dreams, desires, and regrets. You can even use this to discover red flags.
Now…
I have so many ways to get a girl to open up, allowing you to take things to more intimate levels very quickly…
And it’s not just using questions, there’s a very fun game I like to play with women as well that opens her up to sexual topics.
More on that in part 2 tomorrow.
Talk to you then…
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