Give these a try… she’s gonna love it!
Foreplay…
It ain’t just for the bedroom.
Foreplay is used anytime you want to build sexual tension…
The tension in the air caused by mystery and anticipation of what’s to come.
You’re using your words to trigger her own imagination and turn herself on.
… Very important you create sexual tension (especially early on), as it is the ONLY way to ensure you never end up in the friendzone.
So as long as you know how to push the right buttons, you can be the guy that causes the Great Flood in her panties…
BEFORE you’ve even met her!
Trust me, if she likes you, you’re going to make her want to rip your clothes off before she even meets you… so things get hot and heavy very quickly on the date itself.
Here’s how you do foreplay before the date:
Tip #1: Specific instructions
“Meet me here, at this time, and wear that cute red dress I saw on your profile”
A simple message like that says a LOT…
It conveys you’re very masculine, decisive, and someone who’s not afraid to go after what he wants.
Telling her what to wear is a great one too, because women constantly rack their brains about what to wear on a date… so you’re going to be making the job a lot easier for her.
For extra points, when you do see her wear that dress — compliment her!
Reward her when she follows your directions and she’s going to do it more often.
Plus, giving instructions is a great way to tell if a girl is really interested in you or not.
If she’s not into you, then you’re probably not gonna get a positive response. And that’s okay.
You just saved yourself a lot of time.
Tip #2: Send voice notes
Voice Notes are a fantastic opportunity for you to display confidence.
I’ve had girls say that my voice and accent are extremely sexy, and you can experience the same if you speak with a low and calm tone.
But what do you say?
Well - orders, instructions, flirtatious questions, being a bit cocky and funny, being curious, or just complimenting her on something.
Now most guys are too shy to send voice notes…
So by doing this you’re going to instantly stand out from the crowd and be seen as a more confident man.
Tip #3: Call her a good girl
This ALWAYS goes down well…
And if it doesn’t, well she ain’t into you my friend.
Call her a good girl when she complies with your instructions.
It creates a dom-sub relationship dynamic from the start…
And her imagination is going to go wild with deep dark fantasies with these two magic words.
Tip #4: Ambiguity
When texting, you don’t want to be Mr. Available all the time.
If you’re having endless back and forth texts and always replying back to her instantly…
It shows her you don’t have a life, meaning you’re not a very interesting person.
But, sexual tension will dwindle down if you don’t set up a date quickly.
Tip #5: Assume success
Another way to display confidence.
Here’s an example of what I mean…
When texting her, you can say something like “I have a feeling we’re going to get along well together”
Then on the date itself when you two are getting along, you say “I knew we’d get along” with a smirk on your face.
It shows you are very sure of yourself, and women will get weak knees hearing that!
Another example:
“How many kids can you give me?”
(Said in a joking manner, by the way)
Now be careful not to overuse this technique as she’ll think she’s won you over.
So to balance this out, always be sure to stay curious about her. Ask her questions to find out more about her. That way it feels like she still has to qualify herself for you.
And that’s it.
Try these tips out and she’ll be dying to rip your clothes off before you even meet her.
… A great way to start the date off if you ask me.
Just make sure that you have what it takes to blow her mind in the bedroom. If you do all this “pre-date foreplay magic”... only to leave her disappointed in the bedroom…
Well, it’ll all have been for nothing!
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