Gain Confidence like THIS and you’ll make women WET!!!
I remember the days when I didn’t even have the confidence to strike up a conversation with a girl…
Now I have hundreds of people on social media calling me toxically masculine.
Screw ‘em.
Weak, spineless, and “tolerant” men should not be celebrated.
There’s nothing evil or wrong about being a genuinely confident man who isn’t afraid to go after what he wants.
Re-read that last sentence. Then read it again.
So to help you become the best and most confident version of yourself, I’m going to share with you the 11 ways I used to build up my own confidence…
Not only so that girls can sense it and be drawn to you, but so you feel on top of the world.
1. Build something
Men are builders.
Build a business, a skill, your body, anything.
If you’re not striving and progressing towards anything, you will surely struggle with anxiety, low confidence, and crippling self esteem.
Confidence comes through progress and achievement.
2. Trust your gut
You don’t always have to weigh the pros and cons before making a decision.
Your subconscious mind is rarely wrong, and it gets more accurate with experience.
Make decisions quickly. Take action.
3. Stop giving up
Striving for something worthwhile is hard - I totally get it.
I guarantee you anyone who’s achieved anything worthwhile has felt the urge to give up too.
But the funny thing is, this urge often kicks in just before you’re about to achieve a goal.
So keep pushing, and remember this: You are not a loser. You just haven’t stuck with something long enough to become a winner.
4. Stop using self limiting phrases
Never say “I can’t”
You’ll just drag yourself down and limit your potential.
Replace it with more affirming statements like:
"I can do…”, “I will get…”, “I’m going to do…”, “I’m grateful for…”, “I have the opportunity to do…”
Don’t underestimate how powerful the way you speak to yourself is.
5. Laugh off your mistakes
Mistakes are part of the building process.
It is literally inevitable.
Don’t try to “save face”. Own it, laugh at it, and learn from it.
I recommend even reframing your losses as lessons. It is much more powerful language.
6. Walk with purpose
Chin up, chest up, shoulders back, smile, and take up space.
Your physiology affects your psychology.
Acting confident will instantly make you feel more confident.
7. Stop complaining
Nobody cares mate. Sorry.
Complaining will only make both you and the people around you feel worse (and not want to hang out with you).
Stay positive and have the balls to change your situation because nobody is coming to save you.
8. Learn from confident people
Identify the common traits, beliefs, and behaviors of men you respect.
Then adopt them in your own unique way.
Do NOT try to be a carbon copy.
9. Remember your wins
Feeling in a rut?
Remember all the times you were winning. Hell, write them all down in a journal if you have to.
Big, small, remember them all.
Let that feeling of victory reignite you.
10. Surround yourself with men you want to be like
By just being around confident men, they will influence your traits, beliefs, and behaviors through osmosis.
If you can’t find role models to be around, find other young ambitious hustlers.
There is nothing more beneficial to a man’s success than a brotherhood of like minded men.
11. Aim to be respected, not liked
You can’t please everyone…
Being a “Yes Man” only makes you weak, insecure, and afraid.
I guarantee you there’s someone about to reply to this email saying “What do you know? you’re an ex-poRnsTAr!” even though I’m successful in every aspect of life.
Better to be a confident asshole who wins than be an insecure, weak, nice guy.
We all know which one the girls are attracted to.
